Friday, November 30, 2018

Merce & Me presents.......


We at Merce & Me like change. In fact, we crave it. We are constantly looking for new products, new styles, unexpected colors, and different ways to style not just our products but all brands of products.  We are growing and changing everyday, just like Merce herself.

You may have noticed a new collection on the website, STYLED by Merce. This collection is very special. THIS is where our preorder Holiday Surprise Boxes will load from now on (the next is coming in January, just in time for Valentine's!)....not only will the preorder boxes load, but also our new STYLED boxes. STYLED boxes will load randomly in extremely limited quantities and will include not just an MM product but an entire outfit head to toe--all you will need to add is a pair of shoes!  This is super exciting for us, as we love to put together outfits, we just don't always have someone to put IN those outfits! You'll never know what is in the Styled box until it arrives, and every single one is different. We will provide general descriptions in product listing, like 'sporty', 'dressy', 'casual' to give you an idea of whether or not it will work for your little beauty, but the contents will be a surprise.

We hope everyone will be just as excited as we are about this new experience coming to our website soon. Very soon. Like, very VERY soon.

https://merceandme.com/collections/styled-by-merce

Thursday, November 8, 2018

It's rep time!

Yep, it's THAT time again! One of our favorite times of the year....Rep Search!
We are looking to add just a few more members to our team for the Spring 2019 term. 



2018 has been a whirlwind! We introduced clothing: shorties, tanks, new sock styles, long sleeve layering shirts, ruched leggings, ruffle pants, pocket dresses, tights and before the year is out, we will have a new shirt style and long sleeve dress to add to the mix! We have NO plans to slow down in 2019. Spring designs are underway, exciting samples are en route, and Merce & Me as a company is following the 'real' Merce's lead....we are growing and maturing at an alarming rate! So we need YOUR help! Come join our team and help us celebrate our growth and new product lines. 

All you have to do is send us an email at mmnecessities@gmail.com!

Include 2 (TWO) pictures you took that you feel showcase not only your beautiful little one, but also your photography AND styling skills. We are looking for clear very well styled photos, not necessarily professional quality.  Be sure to let us know why you both want to rep for us, your girls' height/weight (for sizing only), typical clothing size, shoe size, age, name, anywhere else she reps, and a little bit about you both!

We are looking for:
kiddos age 18m - 10y+, AND
Clothing sizes 12m - 10y, and/or
Shoe sizes 7t - 5y.

We welcome all applicants. Any abilities. All ethnicities. Girly-girls to "tom-boys". If you feel MM fits your style, we hope you will apply! 

We have three tiers of team members, and NO purchase requirements ever. We understand moms and dads are busy people and our rep motto is "no stress; have fun!"

Applications are being accepted now through Friday November 16th. We hope to see your application soon! 

Monday, October 22, 2018

Surprise!

The Elves at Merce & Me have been hard at work creating our newest release, the Holiday Surprise Box! 


This specially curated box is full of not only never before seen or released Merce & Me clothing pieces, but also items from three fun collaborators: 
BuggaBoo Bows
Calista & Co.
The Knotty Burl

Holiday Surprise boxes will be available in sizes 12m - 10y, in very limited quantities, and will ship to you (no later than) the Monday before Thanksgiving...in plenty of time for all her Holiday outfits! And here's a hint, if you bought Cranberry Ava's or Bettie Button tees in our preorder you already have a match to one of our Surprise Box items on the way! If not, we will have a few extras to load when they arrive in November. ;) 

Not only do we have Surprise Boxes loading soon, but we have new products and styles coming in November, including TIGHTS in several colors and sizes! If you haven't signed up for email notifications, now is a great time to do that on our website: www.merceandme.com.  More details about these fun Surprise Boxes will come later this week....don't miss out!


Thursday, July 12, 2018

Merce & Me & YOU!

It's time for Merce & Me to expand our team! We are looking for Brand Enthusiasts, Representatives, and Ambassadors for the upcoming quarter. 

WHO:
We are looking for fun, camera loving and stylish girls between 18m - 10y clothing sizes and/or 6t - 4y shoe sizes! We do not require purchase to enter our search, but we do require a genuine love for MMN products. 💗

Why yes, that is a sneak of our Berry Stripe Quinn releasing 22July!
Miss E always has us laughing and smiling. 

WHEN:
Team applications are being accepted via email now through 31July. 

WHERE/HOW:
Email 2 (two) of your favorite styled photos, that you took, to us at mmnecessities@gmail.com 
along with her clothing and shoe sizes, age, date of birth, and a little bio.

WHAT:
We are filling three tiers of team members. All team members receive a personal use discount, friends and family share code, AND free product in exchange for....
Brand Enthusiasts  
~One post/child/week on Facebook outlets
~One post/child/week on Instagram using specified #
~Share/regram all MMN posts.
~Provide photos as requested for promotional use.
~photograph items within 1 (one) week of receipt.
~engage in MMN social media in a positive manner

Brand Reps 
~Two posts/child/week on Facebook outlets
~Two posts/child/week on Instagram using specified #
~Share/regram all MMN posts
~Provide photos as requested for promotional use
~Photograph items within 1 (one) week of receipt
~engage in MMN social media in a positive manner

Brand Ambassadors  (these are usually internal promotion positions)
~4 posts/child/week on Facebook outlets
~3 posts/child/week on Instagram using specified #
~Provide high quality photos for website and promotional use via email within one week of receipt
~Share/regram all MMN posts
~engage in MMN social media in a positive manner

*contract will include more specific information that will be agreed upon before team member's term starts. 


We have so many new items and products and colors coming up this next term, and we would love to have you on our team! Feel free to contact us with any questions, or any of our current reps to get the low down on what it's really like to be on our team! You can find our current team members on our Facebook page: Merce & Me Necessities VIP (and also lots of sneaks and exclusive sales). We hope to hear from you soon! 


Friday, July 6, 2018

There's a New Quinn on the Block

As we come up on the official one year anniversary of Merce & Me Necessities, I have to stop and reflect upon the last 365 days. it's been a total whirlwind. I've learned so much, and continue to learn (sometimes very hard) lessons every day.  Thankfully I have unending support from the greatest friends imaginable, and total support from my amazing family! Merce & Me began with a desire to carry quality knee high socks, in fun unexpected colors and extended sizes. Socks expanded to bows in various sizes and types. Then along came fun extras like sunglasses and novelty socks. Then Lace layering shirts. Button ruffle shorties and flutter tanks were introduced this spring, in fun colors and patterns and quality knit built to last. Now as we prepare to embark on year two, our first dress style "Quinn" is about to release.  We have Grace cardigans waiting in the wings....pants are in the works along shirts and a special something coming 2019. 😉 This has been one amazing & busy year, that's for sure. 

We released our first Quinn in Red Dot in very limited quantities late in June. We had released several sneaks into social media and heard several people asking for them before the 4th. So we loaded just a small amount in order to ensure delivery by the 4th. The response to Quinn was overwhelming and we are so excited to release the remaining inventory in just a few days!

Red Dot quinn will release Sunday July 8, 2018 at 8:oo pm CST, in sizes 12m -10y.


Red Dot Quinn, size 2.
Model is 35#, 39"
Shoes by Old Navy
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Quinn is a fun ruffle sleeve and hem dress made of high quality knit. It features a contrast binding at the neck, and side seam pockets. Which our model here used to store her dinosaur and some "monies".  Red Dot Quinn is a perfect match to our Red Dot Bettie Buttons shorties and coordinates great with our Indigo Bettie buttons!

To help with sizing we will show different ages and sizes in our Quinn dresses. But if questions remain, you can email us at mmnecessities@gmail.com or message us on our Facebook page HERE.

Red Dot Quinn sz 12m
Shoes by Converse
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This little beauty is wearing a 12m Red Dot Quinn at 28# and 33". It hit her just above the knees, and affords quite a bit of growing room. Quinn has such a magical fit. The ruffle sleeves are not tight, have a lot of stretch and allowance. Quinn will grow with your beautiful girl, even as a tunic! but we will talk more about that in a bit. 

The beautiful Miss E is wearing a size 2. I just love this girl. Her spirit is so free and pure.   Miss E is 35# and 39", and typically wears a size 3...this size 2 is perfection on her little self. 
Red Dot Quinn sz 2
Shoes: Old Navy
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Our size 4 model is the gorgeous little Miss H. H is approximately 38# and 44" wearing her typical size. She has plenty of room to grow, without sacrificing the look of the fit.  She's paired Quinn with our Hazel socks and Mikoleon boots. We've blogged about Mikoleon Boots before...the are definitely a favorite in our house!


Red Dot Quinn, sz 4
Merce & Me Necessities Hazel Socks
Boots: Mikoleon
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Our size 6 and 8 is on Merce. As well as a size 4 as a tunic. 😍 But first the size 6. Merce is now approximately 57# and 51.5". She's a typical size 7ish. Her body proportions are not average, as the bulk of her height comes from her legs. it's a curse she got from her 6' tall mom. Poor girl. Anyhow, This is the size 6 on her. 

Red Dot Quinn sz 6
Shoes: Keds
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it's a little short, but the Indigo Bettie Button shorties are such a great match and super fun poking out from underneath.  The next photo shows Merce in the size 8. This was before school let out, and before she grew another half inch. She was around 57# and 51" at this time.

Red Dot Quinn size 8
MMN White 5" Bestie Bow
Shoes: L'amour
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Now, if you've been around for awhile you know I couldn't resist sizing down and seeing how this would work as a tunic. Here are the results: 

I LOVE IT! The waist is low enough that even when you size down, it's still in an appropriate position for a top. Even more importantly, Merce loved it. She said it was her favorite way to wear the dress and ran off to hang the 4 up in her closet. Just kidding, she ran off and threw it in the bottom of her closet because "hangers are hard". 😅

We also borrowed a local model for our size 8 Quinn, the amazingly beautiful Miss K. Miss K is 63#, 53.5" and a typical size 10ish. She will be entering the 5th grade this coming year, and her mom reports she LOVES her Quinn dresses and has worn them several times. 💗 We are so excited that all of our feedback has been so encouraging and positive about our Quinn dress....and that each of our models and reps have chosen to wear the dresses day after day. That's our goal at MMN...style and comfort they want to wear again and again. 
Red Dot quinn sz 8.
Shoes: Converse
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And last, but not least, our size 10 model was photographed by the amazing Nicole Dalton Photography. If you are in West Virginia, look her up! Her gorgeous model "G" is 54.25" and 71# and typically a size 12ish.  This is an amazing fit on her, the arms aren't tight and the length is looks very school-appropriate. 
Red Dot Quinn sz 10
Photo credit: Nicole Dalton Photography
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We are so very excited for our newest style to hit the website! Red Dot Quinn loads Sunday 7/8/18 at 8:00 pm CST, followed by a yet to be revealed "Stripe Quinn" on 7/22/18. And then, finally, our Grace cardigan in Jewel on 8/5/18.  We have loved seeing all the Quinn pictures from customers that grabbed one during our pre-4th of July mini load, and hope that you will all share too! Use #mmnecessities on Instagram so we can find your pictures! 







Tuesday, May 1, 2018

Little Eliza on the Prairie

Nelly Madison Clothing co recently debuted a new style, Eliza. And by recently I mean just about an hour ago.  Flower Gardener Eliza featured a beautiful delicate floral with hues of pink and emerald, gingham accents, functional pockets, gorgeous buttons, and a hidden zipper.

Nelly Madison Clothing Co Flower Gardener Eliza Dress
Manuela de Juan British Oxfords from Just Shoes for Kids
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Isn't it gorgeous? Check out the details! Those perfectly dyed buttons to match the emerald piping and binding, and the fun pockets to hold dandelions...at least that's what Merce filled them with.

Nelly Madison Clothing Co Flower Gardener Eliza Dress
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Nelly Madison Clothing Co Flower Gardener Eliza Dress
©Merce & Me, LLC 2018 
Let's talk Eliza sizing. In the pictures above, Merce is wearing a size 6. She can also wear a size 5 and 7/8. The size 5 is an amazing vintage fit with no growing room. Let's look at that real quick. 
Merce & Me Necessities Bow (coming May 2018)
Merce & Me Necessities Cardigan (coming July-ish 2018)
Merce & Me Necessities Ivy socks, hand dyed. Size small for shorter look.
Nelly Madison Clothing Co. Eliza Sample Dress
Manuela de Juan British Oxfords from Just Shoes for Kids
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Merce is currently 57# and 50.25" to be exact. The size 5 zips with ease and fits like a glove; the zipper allows for some stretch and give. She has room to move but another 3# and it won't be comfortable for her. This dress is a size sample, along with the others you will see shortly, but the pink gingham dollies from Nelly Madison were perfect underneath!

Her cardigan and hair bow are both Merce & Me Necessities (follow us on Fb for insider info right HERE). The cardigan is also a size sample, but will be a released color. It's going to be a beautifully hued fall for both Merce & Me Necessities and Nelly Madison, I can't wait to share all the details!  Her hair bow is a new style debuting early May 2018 in several colors, along with new colors of our 5" and 6" Bestie Bows. Her socks are our soft white Ivy cable knit knee highs, in a size small. She normally wears a medium or large for extra height with boots, but I wanted a shorter look. The size small is not a realistic all-day wear for her size 2y foot, but it gave us the look we were going for.   And her shoes.....Manuela de Juan. I have an obsession with MDJ for photos. And this time, Merce was totally on board. She calls them her picture shoes and wants to wear them in EVERY picture. You'll notice she's wearing them with Flower Gardener too. I have a feeling they will show up over and over again if she has a say in it! They are a unisex oxford, which I love. If only the 10 or 15 year old brothers would let me dress them too! We've found Just Shoes for Kids offers a unique selection of manuela de Juan shoes.

Now this is Merce in a size 6. The Flower Gardener picture above is also a size 6.
Merce & Me Necessities Bow (coming May 2018)
Merce & Me Necessities Ivy socks, hand dyed. Size small for shorter look.
Nelly Madison Clothing Co. Eliza Sample Dress
Manuela de Juan British Oxfords from Just Shoes for Kids
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I see this as a more versatile and popular fit for her size. She has growing room in the size 6 and it's still a nice length...not too short and not too long. 

Let's look at some smaller sizes. This gorgeous little girl had just celebrated her first birthday, and typically wears about a size 18m in clothing. She's wearing a 12m Eliza with room to grow. 😍 
Nelly Madison Clothing Co Eliza sample Dress
Merce & Me Necessities Taupe 5" Bestie Bow
Merce & Me Necessities custom dyed Ivy cable knit socks, xs
Mini Melissa shoes
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This shot came from just slightly above her center, which makes it look a little longer. The invisible zipper in the back makes an easy job of dressing the little ones. No buttons to fumble with while your baby is on the move! You can see Baby A has some room to grow in this size 12m. She was approximately 23# and 32.5" at the time of this shoot, and gave me some serious baby fever. 💖

Next up is Happy, Free Spirited, Little Miss E. Miss E is growing like a weed, and I just can't call her Baby E anymore. It makes me so sad to see all these babies growing so fast. 
Nelly Madison Clothing Co Eliza sample Dress
Merce & Me Necessities soft white Ivy cable knit socks, xs
Old Navy Shoes
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Miss E is wearing a size 18 month, at 35# and 38". She has no growing room but it's a gorgeous vintage fit on her. She normally wears a size 3 in clothing. The size 18m is about like the size 5 on Merce, size 2 is best for E, and size 3 would afford quite a bit of growing room but more of a just-below-the-knee fit.
Nelly Madison Clothing Co Eliza sample Dress
Merce & Me Necessities sample Cardigan (coming Julyish 2018)
Merce & Me Necessities soft white Ivy cable knit socks, xs
Old Navy Shoes
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Her cardigan from this shot is another Merce & Me sample in a gorgeous berry color. This fall is going to be Fabulous at Merce & Me! I can't wait to share all the new designs and products!  Miss E's shoes are Old Navy that I snagged last year and hoarded. yes, Merce is our youngest with a size 2y foot and I hoard baby shoes for pictures. That's not weird right?


Our last fit model is Miss R. Miss R is the same age my middle son, and still won't consent to being my daughter-in-law some day. 😂 I'll keep working on that, but in the meantime she consented to modeling the size 7/8 and 9/10 Eliza.  R is 5' tall, and 90#. The size 7/8 fit with no growing room at all and gave a very short look on her long-legged frame.
Nelly Madison Clothing Co sample Eliza Dress
unknown wedge booties
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The 7/8 is not ideal for this 9 yr old beauty, but the 9/10 was gorgeous. It afforded her quite a bit of growing room, and the length was just above the knee. 

Nelly Madison Clothing Co sample Eliza Dress
unknown wedge booties
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Eliza is gorgeously vintage and classic and perfect for so many occasions.... graduations, weddings, church, school pictures, and durable enough for everyday wear! I hope this has been helpful in sizing of Nelly Madison's new style. The fit is versatile and the zipper allows for some give for longer wear.  I recommend sizing down once for the best fit, twice for a photo-perfect vintage fit, or buying her regular size for longer wear. But, when in doubt grab a measuring tape and follow the size charts. Ideal dress size is subjective, and we all have different opinions and preferences--and you know what? that's ok! We can't all be the same, or the world would be booooring.  😘







Saturday, February 17, 2018

Butterflies and Freebies

So here's the deal. I told myself wasn't going to do another Nelly blog until March. And I searched and searched for another brand. But she wears Nelly 4-5 days out of the week, the quality is amazing, it's made in the USA, and it's her favorite....so here we are. Another amazing Nelly Madison release blog. 💖

Butterfly Breeze is a Spring collection Nelly Madison released. It's gorgeous. The colors are the epitome of Spring! Pinks, peach, mint, soft white....so gorgeous that I released a coordinating Bestie Bow bundle before the collection launched (sneaky sneaky!).

It consists of 2 Josie tunics (a third coming later), 1 Josephine dress, two pairs of Dollies, and one pair of Bloomies. The previously released Light Pink and Turquoise Gretta and Polly's also were a perfect match and were re-released along with the collection.  So here it is, in all it's glory. 😍

Nelly Madison Clothing Co Butterfly Breeze collection
Spring Dream Bestie Bow Bundle & Soft White Ivy socks, Merce & Me Necessities
Cardigans from Primary.com
Converse Chucks
Livie and Luca shoes
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Aren't the colors amazing?! So perfect for Spring!  Let's look at them piece by piece:
Merce & Me Necessities Mint to Be 5" Bestie Bow
Old Navy tutu dress
Nelly Madison Minty Breeze Josie Tunic
Nelly Madison Pink Polly Pants
Mint colored Converse
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Merce is wearing the Minty Breeze Josie Tunic in a size 6. her layering dress is a tutu dress from Old Navy in a size 5T (that's as large as they go), and her Pink Polly Pants are a 6 as well. (In fact, every Nelly piece she is wearing, is a size 6!) They all coordinate perfectly for a fun look, perfect for outdoor Easter Egg hunts, and all Spring long! And to top it off, the Mint to Be 5" Bestie Bow perfectly coordinates.

Nelly Madison Magnolia Morning Josephine Dress
Converse
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The Josephine style dress is Merce's favorite style. She loves the super twirly tiered skirt and knit bodice! It's so easy for her to wear to school, even on PE days!

Nelly Madison Magnolia Morning Josephine Dress
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The close up of these fabrics is amazing. I just had to share it.

Two pieces down, five to go! This next one is the Peaches & Dreams Josie Tunic.
Merce & Me Necessities Mint to Be 5" Bestie Bow
Nelly Madison Peaches & Dreams Josie Tunic
Nelly Madison Baby's Breath Dollies
Joyfolie Gladiators
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Ok, ok. You can't see the front of the tunic, but you can in the main picture. ;) I love this picture. She felt so beautiful and free in this that it radiated from her. I think this is my favorite Tunic from this collection. Maybe. Or it could be the mint. Just don't make me choose.

The last tunic, that will be loading later this spring, is currently unnamed. And it's a beaut as well. 
Nelly Madison Unnamed Tunic
Nelly Madison Lollipop Dollies
Merce & Me Necessities Soft White Ivy socks
Converse
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There's so many different ways you can style these Josie tunics! With bloomies, dollies, icings, button leggings, shorties, capris, jeans, skinnies, etc etc etc. The options are pretty much endless.  Here's another view layered for those days that aren't as warm....
Nelly Madison unnamed Josie tunic & Turquoise Gretta and Polly's
Sweethoney Shoes
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The one piece we haven't seen yet, are the Birdie Bloomies. So here they are with the Minty Breeze Josie Tunic, a peach MMN Bestie Bow, White Hazel socks from MMN as well, Pipperdoodles bow shoes, and a M2M necklace from Calista & Co.
Merce & Me Necessities Peachy Keen Bestie Bow and Hazel Socks
Nelly Madison Minty Breeze Josie Tunic & Birdie Bloomies
Necklace from Calista & Co
Pipperdoodles Shoes
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I just love this collection! And the best part is that it's still available on the site in most sizes and pieces! Well that's not really the best part.....THIS IS! Nelly Madison is offering FREE SHIPPING for the next day or so! Use code: AMERICA to save on shipping, AND if you spend $50 or more, they will send you a code good for $10 credit at Merce & Me Necessities! Happy President's Day! Now is the time to stock up for Spring! Grab all the bloomies and dollies, and tunics and dresses! This type of event doesn't happen too often at Nelly Madison Clothing Co, so grab it while you can. 💕





















Monday, February 5, 2018

Merce & Jane + Jo

We were added to a new group recently--not new to the world, just new to us.  The first thing I saw on the page was the Moody Blooms dress, and I thought "ohhh Merce will love that!" It's purple. She loves purple in a "purplicious" sort of way. I scanned through the page, looking at the interaction and it all seemed so positive and friendly so I went to the website and made the purple dress ours. So what do we do? We break it out of the closet and have a mini photo shoot before school! Indoors, in terrible lighting, so forgive us for that.

Merce & Me Necessities Crimson Bestie Bow
Jane + Jo Moody Blooms Nora Dress
Merce & Me Necessities Dark Red Ivy socks
Livie & Luca Calliope boots
©merce&me 2018

 The dress is a nice heavy knit, with bright fun colors, and her favorite part....POCKETS! She's wearing a size 6 with plenty of room to grow in the width. The arms are a little short, but she has very long limbs so that's not unusual. And did I mention it has pockets?!

Merce & Me Necessities Crimson Bestie Bow
Jane + Jo Moody Blooms Nora Dress
Merce & Me Necessities Dark Red Ivy socks
Livie & Luca Calliope boots
©merce&me 2018
We already had our Dark Red Ivy socks and crimson Bestie Bow from from Merce & Me Necessities, which were perfect matches! She wanted purple Ivy socks, but there is such a thing as too much purple. Merce didn't agree, but she liked the red with it thankfully. We love these boots. They seem to run small, so these are a 2 and she doesn't have much growing room at all.

Jane + Jo Moody Blooms Nora Dress
Merce & Me Necessities Dark Red Ivy socks
Livie & Luca Calliope boots
©merce&me 2018
Another pocket shot, because I have about 100 pictures of her inspecting the pockets, so why not use two?

Merce & Me Necessities Crimson Bestie Bow
Jane + Jo Moody Blooms Nora Dress
Merce & Me Necessities Dark Red Ivy socks
Livie & Luca Calliope boots
©merce&me 2018


There's non-functional buttons down the front of the dress which add a nice touch. She was thankful they aren't 'real' buttons. 
Jane + Jo Moody Blooms dress
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And we can't have a Merce shoot without some twirling right? She wore Hunter Green bloomies from Nelly Madison Clothing Co under the dress because it has a massive twirl factor and.....well, she's 7. She's just not quite a lady yet. ;) 


Merce & Me Necessities Crimson Bestie Bow
Jane + Jo Moody Blooms Nora Dress
Nelly Madison Clothing Co bloomies
Merce & Me Necessities Dark Red Ivy socks
Livie & Luca Calliope boots
©merce&me 2018
To sum it all up, Merce loves her Moody Blooms Nora dress from Jane + Jo! Shipping time was quick, price was only $38, and the Facebook page (you can find it HERE) seemed warm and inviting. Their next load isn't until late March which makes us sad, but amazingly there's a couple sizes on the website still in Moody Blooms, and a beautiful short sleeve dress!  We will definitely be watching for their next drop.











Monday, January 15, 2018

Speak Your Kind

One day Merce and I went to Starbucks for an after photo session treat, and the drive-thru was full. Our Starbucks is TINY, and the drive-thru is very awkward. 5 cars fills it up and out into the parking lot blocking traffic. So we went inside, and I'm so glad we did. 

We saw this mug on the shelf, and since Merce reads everything nowadays she asked me how to pronounce the word 'Kind'. That's when I paid attention to what she was reading.  We discussed the mug, and what the words meant. By now we were sitting waiting on her hot chocolate and my Salted Caramel Macchiato (decaf, coconut milk instead of cow's milk, and half squirts of everything sweet because I'm old and my body no longer tolerates all the good things in life).  She asked what the saying meant, and I told her it was a play on the saying, Speak your mind. She asked what that meant and I did the best I could explaining it to a 7 year old. I told her that it meant to say whatever came to your mind without thinking about it, or how others would feel. I gave her an example, that if I walked into a room and someone said "Hi! Your shirt is ugly" then they would be speaking their mind without thinking about how that would make someone feel. Merce's eyes got big, the tears started welling. She couldn't believe someone would say something "mean" like that. And immediately came across the table for hugs. While she was in my lap, with tears coming from her eyes, in the middle of a tiny busy starbucks, we discussed what the mug meant. Speak Your Kind. To be conscience of what you are saying and how it effects others. To speak kindly, and respectfully, to other people, treating them how you would want them to treat you and your friends.  This Merce understood completely, what she didn't understand, was why people didn't do this all the time.

So this made me think. This 7 year old girl gets it. She really gets it. Why can't we as adults? I went back 3 days later and bought that mug because I couldn't get it out of my head. It's now here to serve as a constant reminder. I will make a conscious effort every day to speak kindly, and to treat others as a 7 year old girl would. I challenge you to do the same. Speak Your Kind. 💗

Starbucks coffee cup
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